Amor Fati❤️

 

Amor Fati is letter written to the man who is my heart, my home, and my forever. It captures the bond we share and the beauty of a love built with intention, grace, and devotion. May it inspire you and quietly remind you that true love is possible.

My Irreplaceable

 

I so friggin’. love. you.
I am so happy to be married to your Black ass. Seriously. When I sit and think about you, the love I feel is almost too much for my heart to handle. You know that feeling when you miss someone, and suddenly you remember every single thing that makes them amazing? That’s me. Writing about you gives me space to breathe it all in, to sit and think about who you are, who God created you to be, and how lucky I am that you are mine. You are the calm in my storm. The predictable, always-there, never-exploding human being I can always count on. Fun, easy, peaceful, and secretly, the softest, safest spot in my life. You joke about “softness” because you were raised to be hard, but the irony is, you’re the softest, strongest, safest human I know. With you, I always know what I am getting. Always. You are home. How we end up here, married, still blows my mind. I didn’t even dream of it, and now, I can’t imagine life any other way.

Maybe we should go down memory lane

We met in 2019. Same school, same space, barely a “hi” here and there for years. You were my bop daddy, how we gave ourselves that name sef, I don’t remember. I remember the days that because of small writing that you did back then I turned you to mini-god. I held you in high esteem, not knowing you will become my everything but now I don see you finish.

Then comes June 19th, 2023. We walked down that path, calm, poised, everything at peace. I was like Whoa. Who even is this person? I remember you talking so passionately that day. That’s when I feel drawn to you, your maturity, your dignity, your presence. You became everything I ever wished for… except your shortness😹 which is apparently no longer a big deal. I love you like that my short king.

Fast forward to weeks and months later, I start noticing all the ways you make life easier, sweeter, better. You travel from Ilorin to Malete just to come lay down on my rubbish bed and see me. You show up with gifts, foodddddd, snacks. At that point i am saying life with this man would be better than Amotekun o😹😹. 

You worked so hard just so I can breathe without stressing about anything. Watching you take care of me made realize that there was no one like you.

There are moments that hit me so hard. Like the night you slept in a petrol station after midnight. Omo I can’t forget that day. Who does that? My Man, that’s who. Your love isn’t loud. It’s in the little things. In the sacrifices, the thoughtfulness, the consistency. You made me feel safe, cherished, celebrated. That’s when I knew: this is what I am setting for. Then I fell in love with you. Deeply. Ridiculously. And happily trapped in it.

 

See us now, living in a new country, building our home, managing life side by side, and you continue to amaze me. You lead with love, patience, and faith. Life with you feels lighter. Better. Happier.

I admire everything about you: your old soul, your heart, your masterpiece body (yes, I said it especially your bum bum), your beauty inside and out. You love my family like your own. You love me like no one else. Every day, I fall a little deeper.

We share so much, babe. Music, jokes, dreams. I have promised myself: I will grow old with you, rocking side by side, just like in Two Rockin’ Chairs. There’s nothing I wouldn’t do for you. No distance I wouldn’t cross. No limit to how far I will go. You are my home, my joy, my heart, my everything. Life with you is messy, magnificent, and utterly mine, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I would marry you a hundred times over. Thank you for making me want to be better. Thank you for being my teammate, my safe space, my partner in all things adulting. Thank you for dreaming big, for growing with me, for always being yourself, and for choosing me, every single day. How lucky I am. There is nowhere I would rather be than right here, in this life with you because I am hopelessly, ferociously, irrevocably in love with you and I would always be in this life and the next.

"Our love is something that is truly special and there is no other love like ours in the world."

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